Books
On Christina Applegate, Nostalgia, and Common Connections
Every so often, something reminds me that people have so much more in common than otherwise
What I'd Grab in the Criterion Closet
A short list of long obsessions
Eleven-Year-Old Me Had a Plan
What she got wrong about adulthood and what she understood better than I did
What I Kept, What I Threw Away, and Why It Mattered
On cleaning out our house, reclaiming a space, and choosing the present
I Don't Want to Be Discovered. I Want to Be Understood
Reflections on visibility, proximity, and what creative recognition really costs
The Difference Between Having a Thought and Publishing It
How I decide when to stop writing and close the tab
Jim Carrey, Andy Kaufman, and the Art of Letting People Squirm
A love letter to social experiments, good-natured trolling, and intentional confusion
Everyone Clicks the Personal Blog
And I think I've finally stopped wondering why
Being Seen Is Not the Same as Being Available
On attention, assumption, and choosing where access ends
What I’m Doing When I Don’t Have Much to Give
Keeping commitments and maintaining creative connection during an intense stretch
You Don't Need a "New You" in the Dead of Winter
Rethinking January’s obsession with reinvention
Life, Slightly Out of Order
A quiet check-in during a slightly unsettled stretch
The Joy of Not Explaining Yourself
What happens when you stop rushing to make your ideas legible