Life Lessons
6 Ways Your World Gets Smaller as You Age (and Why That's a Good Thing)
What I didn't expect to learn about getting older, paying attention, and figuring out what matters most
An Entirely Reasonable Interest in Cucumbers
Ten observations from the garden this summer (so far)
The Dresses Waiting Upstairs
For years, two impossible gowns wait patiently for the woman who made them
Don't Let Personal Projects Become "Someday" Projects
Practical ways to keep writing, making art, and creating for yourself even when work demands your attention
I've Stopped Treating Mornings Like Enemy Territory
On aging, changing preferences, and discovering beauty in unexpected places
9 Signs Your Bucket List Has Evolved into a Death Tour
Why midlife dreams start looking less like skydiving and more like finally learning Icelandic
So, I Guess We Use AI to Talk to Each Other Online Now
What happens when comments, replies, and internet conversation become machine-assisted
On Spring, Wuthering Heights, and a Few Personal Things
A brief update on life — something I just don't do enough anymore
By 50, You’re Done With More Than You Think
What changes for women in midlife and why you stop tolerating things that used to feel normal
On Christina Applegate, Nostalgia, and Common Connections
Every so often, something reminds me that people have so much more in common than otherwise
Take the Picture, Because You'll Forget More Than You Think
What a bizarrely calm bird taught me about memory, detail, and proof
Stop Trying to Care About Things You’re Done With
Why interest fades, what to do when it does, and why people push back
I'm Not an April Fool's Person
On pranks, awkward social scripts, and quietly stepping out of the joke