Internet
Being Seen Is Not the Same as Being Available
On attention, assumption, and choosing where access ends
Life
What I’m Doing When I Don’t Have Much to Give
Keeping commitments and maintaining creative connection during an intense stretch
Life
Life, Slightly Out of Order
A quiet check-in during a slightly unsettled stretch
Life
This Is a Low-Volume Holiday Season
What it’s like when December shows up without much fanfare
Life
We Don’t Do the Big Family Thanksgiving Table Thing
And honestly? The holiday’s better for it
Life
The Art of the Quiet Pivot
How small, almost-invisible shifts can secretly re-route your entire life
Life
Here I Am, For Real
On selfies, tarot spreads, and showing more of the face behind the words
Aging
The Myth of Being “Done” (and Why I Don't Buy It)
Because life doesn’t come with an expiration date, no matter what society tells you
Life
The Secret Economy of Attention
How the quiet choices of focus shape the architecture of our lives
Movies
The Art of Doing Nothing (With a Little Help from Slacker)
It's really no secret that most of us are taught to fear doing nothing. Idleness is suspicious. Productivity is the religion of the day. So, if you’re not grinding, optimizing, or “getting ahead” every second of every day, then what are you even doing with your life?
Life
Things I'm Not Saying Anywhere Else: A Brain Dump
These days, I share a lot of myself in writing across different spaces – particularly Quora, Substack, and Medium. But some thoughts don’t really fit anywhere official. They’re too quiet, too in-progress, too unresolved, but they're not necessarily private journal thoughts, either. So this time around, I’
Life
The Myth of Wasted Time (and Why I'm Not Playing That Game Anymore)
So, this week seems to be shaping up to be more about recalibrating and recentering than anything else. I saw that coming, though. The universe has had my hands full lately with several months of tasks and little emergencies – broken appliances that needed fixing, jury duty I couldn't