Internet
I Don't Want to Be Discovered. I Want to Be Understood
Reflections on visibility, proximity, and what creative recognition really costs
Internet
The Difference Between Having a Thought and Publishing It
How I decide when to stop writing and close the tab
Internet
Everyone Clicks the Personal Blog
And I think I've finally stopped wondering why
Internet
Being Seen Is Not the Same as Being Available
On attention, assumption, and choosing where access ends
Connection
Some Emails Are Just… There
What to do with messages you never asked for
Internet
On Not Wanting an Audience for Every Thought Anymore
A look back at oversharing as survival and what comes after it
Internet
Please Forward All Mail to the Current Version of Me
What your old internet acquaintances can teach you about growth (and selective replying)
Internet
The Internet Used to Be About People
And maybe it still could be, if we'd stop acting like walking brand deals
Connection
Boundaries, Kindness, and the Myth of the Accessible Creator
How small creators get mistaken for best friends, therapists, and emotional support baristas
Life
The Secret Economy of Attention
How the quiet choices of focus shape the architecture of our lives
Blogging
Blogging Isn’t Dead. It Just Stopped Caring About Being Cool.
On choosing permanence over platforms
Internet
When the Algorithm Breaks Your Routine: 6 Lessons in Resilience for Creators
So, there's this massive AI art group on Facebook where I'm the primary moderator. This being the case, I've developed a daily habit of hopping on there in the mornings to see what's going on, remove anything that violates community standards, approve